Some people are very close to their families, others not so much.
Sophomore Alexander Ruiz says, “I am very close to my family. I love spending time with them. They come first; that’s just the way I live by.”
Sophomore Aiden Paulino is also close to his family because he feels like his family is always there for him and because they spoil him.
Other people can’t really say the same thing. For example, senior Skylar Torres says, “I’m not close to my family because they never supported me or my dreams.”
Geometry teacher Mr. Hernandez isn’t as close to his family other than his mom due to poor communication skills. He admits that it’s very hard for him to keep in touch with people, not just his family.
Senior Alison Gonzalez thinks the way you treat your family is very important because if you respect your family, you can build a good strong relationship with them.
Katherine Perez, a junior, says, “Unity is a very fundamental thing to have in your life because you know they will be there for you in your ups and downs. Trust apart from love is something that can really help the bond you have with your family grow, because when you trust, you know that they have your back.”
Sophomore Alejandra Gonzalez thinks the best part of having a family is knowing you have people to rely on no matter what, knowing that you have unconditional love and support that is provided by them.
Sophomore Cesar Erazo says, “Family is the source of comfort and sharing memories that would last a lifetime.”
Sophomore Jazmin Conterras says, “The best part about having family is they are always there for you to support your goals and just you in general.”
Many people believe family is essential. Skylar Torres says, “I think family is essential for a fulfilling life. It would be really nice if my family did support me.”
Sophomore Emiliana Montenegro says, “I think it’s different for every person. One part, yes, it’s helpful to have a family to succeed and fill in a hole in your heart, but it is also okay if you don’t want a family or think it’s not fulfilling.”
People learn many ways and habits from their family members. Sophomore Alex Ruiz says, “I’ve learned not to take everything personal. You can’t let someone affect how the rest of your day goes just because what they say.”
They also learn from each other’s mistakes. Personally, I have learned from my two sisters, who both got pregnant at a young age, and I have learned not to make the same mistake they did. I’m not saying the babies were a bad thing; they weren’t. They were a blessing, but it was difficult for my sisters to keep going in life and now must worry about a whole new person other than themselves and being so young.
Junior Analia Nunez says, “I’ve learned from my mom that I shouldn’t trust everyone and think they are my friends.”
Junior Melanie Olgin thinks people rely a lot on their family a lot, some for advice just because they have experience and will be able to help you through tough times.
Mr. Hernadez says, “Many people rely on their family for emotional support and a sense of security. They can stay with you through challenges as well as celebrate your successes.”
